A queen doesn’t want swag;she wants class.Learn to have a life,don’t live other people’s life.Most guys don’t have a job but they know all the party joints.
They have been to all the clubs and birthday functions.They don’t read books that can change their lives.Some don’t even have a bank account and don’t even know what a seminar is.
Some go to church just to charge their phones or because the Pastor will say hug your neighbour at the end of the service and then he will search for the prettiest and well endowed girls; they don’t listen to the Pastor.
I don’t know how that adds value to one’s life. You can’t sleep with all the girls and go scot free;you can’t waste peopl’s lives and think yours will be spared.You can’t make women cry and think you will always smile.A man reaps exactly what he sows. Being a ‘Big Boy’ is not in wearing pencil trousers,sunshades,holding Blackberry, iphone,ipad or Galaxy, and then cross your legs.
Being a ‘Big Boy’ means when there is a need and people are looking for the one who can solve or handle it,you’ll be the one.Even when they call your number and don’t get you,they come home looking 4 you-just like David (1Sam.16:14-23). Being a ‘Big Boy’ means being RELEVANT and not a LIABILITY!Use your time to read good books,work on yourself as an individual-especially if you are single.Attend life changing seminars, sit with scholars and not people who discuss football as if it’s their calling.
Be like Jesus who even at the age of 12 was found seated amongst scholars (Luke.2:42-47).Be with people who want to go somewhere;sit with kings and add value to your life.
Your queen should be proud of you and not being laughed at because all her female friends have dated you before.Having numerous girlfriends has never and will never be an achievement.Achieve socially,academically and financially.
Above all,love the Lord GREATLY with all your heart and might and He will love you too.Never forget also that any man can get a woman but not every man can get a wife.The true nature of a wife is from God alone.(Prov.19:14).